Green Salad: Or How to Eat as Much as Your Husband without Gaining Weight

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Some bloggers have  written about the problem of eating as much as one’s husband. I think that they are right. That is why it is funny that I ate as much as my husband for lunch today.

I did not consume nearly the same amount of calories not that I was counting ;-) but I ate the same volume of food.We each had a large green salad. Mine (pictured above) had a few croutons and just a taste of the dressing. His (pictured below) had lots of dressing, croutons, and two hard-boiled eggs.

My weight gain came mostly from not exercising at all due to pain, but less-than-healthy food played along. Adjusting to my husband meant adjusting to his food. While I did not start eating meat, I did add a lot more dairy and refined foods to my diet. I had never had ramen prior to eating with my husband. He had never had lentils prior to eating with me.

Thankfully, I have finally realized that I need to eat a lot, and I need to eat a lot of the foods that I ate while living alone.

Green salad
Two Servings

  • 2 small heads of romaine lettuce
  • 1 large cucumber
  • 1 small head of broccoli
  • 2 small green bell peppers

Fresh green dressing
6 servings

  • 1 egg
  • 1/4 cup canola oil
  • 1/4 cup apple cider vinegar
  • 1 bunch green onions
  • 1 cup flat parsley leaves (not packed)
  • salt and pepper to taste

Salad

The croutons are just chunks of bread drizzled with olive oil, sea salt, and dried herbs. Toasted in the oven.


5 Reasons I won’t count calories

I’ve got my share of fat left to shed, but no intention of starting to count calories. It is not that I do not like charts etc. I do. I love charts and graphs. I just don’t see why I should track calories.

I know, I know. It is basic science. Calories in < calories out = weight loss! If you’d like to lose weight, you’ve got to count your calories. But…

  1. Knowing the exact number of calories you consume does you little good unless you have a very good idea of how many calories you are burning. Using some chart or calculator does not give you a very good idea. If all you have is a rough idea of what you’re burning, then there is little reason to know the exact numbers for what you are consuming. Unless you are using a bodybugg or equivalent all of the time, you are missing half of what you need to do the “calories in vs. calories out” math.

  2. Counting calories gives you a false sense of control over your weight. While it is certain that gorging myself isn’t healthy, it is not certain that eating exactly 3,500 fewer calories a week will result in losing one pound of fat. I have seen several friends endlessly frustrated with their inability to lose exactly the amount of weight they thought  they would. Some reassure themselves that they are just gaining muscle, but none benefited from expecting to control their results with extreme accuracy. It just does not work that way in real life.

  3. Closely related to #2, Calories lie. It really does matter what one eats. Incorporating green smoothies into my day results in weight loss, even if I don’t take anything else out of my diet. Green smoothies make me feel good. When I feel good, I naturally burn more calories. People differ in their feel-good foods (and I’m talking about the foods that make your body say “yes!” not comfort foods) but regardless of whether it is protein or a piece of fruit, the calories in your feel-good food do not mean the same thing as the calories in that other nutritious food that makes you want to sleep!

  4. Counting calories can foster stupid food choices. I am not talking about people choosing a pile of marshmallows over carrot sticks because they contain the same amount of calories. While that may be an issue for some, most people know that they have to eat their carrots and that marshmallows just won’t cut it. The real problem is how people decide what to eat over time. When it is time to eat many people will ignore a fresh orange because it has too many calories to make it worth the nutrients (why not just add some yellow peppers to one’s salad?). But then they will later eat the orange jello because it tastes soooo good and the treat is “worth it”. It is not that they would look at the orange and the jello and choose the jello over the orange, but it is what happens over the course of a week.

  5. Counting calories can lead to overeating. This is not an issue for those severely restricting their calorie intake, but if you’re just trying to be healthy and eat you “ideal” number of calories to lose a pound or two a week, it can be a big problem. If you don’t need food, you should not eat it. It does not matter that you have 75 calories left for your day. It does not matter that you were “really good” the past few days and imagine that you’ve earned a “calorie defecit”. If you do not need food, you should not eat. It is that simple, but somehow counting calories makes people forget that they should only eat what they need. Your stomach will thank you for leaving that last glass of milk in the fridge when you are already full from lunch.

Sometimes I need to think about why I should be sad… and work harder!

Today was one of those days when I felt like doing… nothing. It was a grey day and I am tired of grey days. I want spring.

But I got it all done because I had my must-do list and a bit of inspiration. When I feel tired and lazy there is always one way that can get me to work. Check out this or this for an example.

I just have to remember that there are many children out there in pretty nasty situations. And I could help some of them some day. But that day is going to stay far away as long as I am too lazy to get my act together and do the things I must to be able to care for a needy child. I don’t have a romanticized view of adoption or foster parenting. I know that it is emotional agony (among other draining things). I know that I am not yet prepared for it.

But I have a deep desire to be able to help make a little space a little better.

The bread which you do not use is the bread of the hungry; the garment hanging in your wardrobe is the garment of him who is naked; the shoes that you do not wear are the shoes of the one who is barefoot; the money that you keep locked away is the money of the poor; the acts of charity that you do not perform are so many injustices that you commit. -Saint Basil

The extra books sitting on my shelf can be sold to provide income to pay off debt. In the process I become not only financially able to parent, I also practice the self-denial and self-discipline which I would need to love a child. And when I hear quotes like the one from Saint Basil, I can only wonder why on earth I haven’t done it already.

If anyone who happens upon this has suggestions either for motivation or ways to prepare for parenting (or other forms of service) I would love to hear about them!


Green Smoothies!

Kale

Kale

+

Bananas

Bananas

=

Green Smoothies

Green Smoothies!


Okay, so I put some water in there too, but that’s the basic idea. It may sound nasty, and it takes some getting used to (freezing the bananas helps a lot!), but in the past few months I’ve learned to enjoy green smoothies.

They are an amazing way to get one’s greens (if you eat them in a salad you’re probably not getting much of the nutrients and if you cook them you’ve lost the enzymes). I don’t even enjoy salad, so this has actually been a step up taste-wise for me.

I’d love to know if anyone has suggestions for tricky ways to get more greens in one’s diet!


Garlic

Garlic

I am on a mission to learn about garlic. I use a lot of it. The amount  pictured is typical for any given dinner. It is usually cooked, but I occasionally make an effort to use minced garlic without cooking in case it matters.

That seems a little silly, even to me. Why am I doing something “in case it matters” without even trying to find out whether it matters?! In any case though, it seems that garlic is a good thing for health.

World’s Healthiest Foods says that garlic is:

  • Good for the heart
  • Anti-Inflammatory
  • Antibacterial
  • Antiviral
  • Protects against many cancers
  • Promotes optimal health
  • Promotes weight control

I guess I just need to find out whether I should be guzzling the “aged garlic extract” or fresh raw cloves!


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